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Comin' Out Swinging
Comin' Out Swinging
Comin' Out Swinging isn't just about non-monogamy. It’s a raw, real look at modern relationships. We’re Victoria and Dave Arena: together n…
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Comin' Out Swinging

Comin' Out Swinging isn't just about non-monogamy. It’s a raw, real look at modern relationships. This show explores how love, sex, and identity often buckle under the weight of societal expectations. Redefine "Couple Goals," straight from the Muthaphuckkin OGs.

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Swinging Didn’t Fix Us—It Freed Us
May 15, 2025

Swinging Didn’t Fix Us—It Freed Us

In this episode, we’re getting real about how we got into the lifestyle. We weren’t struggling. We weren’t bored. Our sex life was already damn good—maybe too good. We’ll talk about: How curiosity evolved from Real Sex on HBO...
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Messies, Mentors, and Muthafukkin’ OGs
May 8, 2025

Messies, Mentors, and Muthafukkin’ OGs

In this episode, we’re kicking things off by sharing why we’re finally stepping up to the mic after 22 years in the lifestyle. We’ll talk about: The couple that mentored us early on and showed us how to actually last in non-m...
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Welcome to Comin' Out Swinging!
May 3, 2025

Welcome to Comin' Out Swinging!

Comin' Out Swinging isn't just about non-monogamy. It’s a raw, real look at modern relationships. We’re Victoria and Dave Arena: together nearly 30 years, married over 24, and swinging for more than 22. This show explores how...
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About the Host

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Victoria & Dave Arena

We are a married, LA-based writing team known for brazen comedies inspired by our “WTF are Vic n Dave doing now?” life choices.

Our half-hour TV script Comin’ Out Swinging, currently in development, sparked the podcast of the same name — a raw, real exploration of our 20+ years navigating the swinger lifestyle.

With authenticity, heart, and a fearless voice, we create characters who, like us, live unconventionally and unapologetically. Together, we keep pushing boundaries — proving that life (and comedy) are better lived outside the lines.